Q : I WENT OUT FOR DINNER WITH THIS GUY, and it was great — we got along well, and there was a definite spark. But when it came time to pay, he pulled out a coupon. I'm hardly a princess, but that totally killed it for me. Am I being too hard on him? A:
Here's my little theory. It's a good signal if you're interested in a committed relationship and you want someone who is financially responsible. It's a bad signal if you want someone to pamper you and you're not looking to join your life and back accounts.