Nationals marrying nationals - LIBERTYA North American Expat Lifestyle MagazineIssue 03 March 2005What reasons do National men cite for their disinterest in marrying the U.A.E. local women? Mostly economics. ... The common six figure dowry sum is agreed between the groom's family and the bride's parents and is paid to the bride herself. Honor and pride drive the amount higher and higher. Before the marriage has an honest chance at a happy start, the young groom is in debt and struggling to repay the wedding loan.
Another possible key to National men's interest in marrying foreign women could be the cost of divorce. To divorce his UAE national wife, he may pay as much as Dhs. 50,000 in deferred payments while a foreign wife can be divorced for as little as 2,000 and a plane ticket home.
As the saying goes in economics, exit costs are entry costs. Make it more costly to leave and men will be less likely to enter into a marriage, especially when alternatives exist.
A study conducted by the Ministry of Labour and Social Affairs surveying National men married to foreign women found that 66% of the husbands said they had chosen their wives to escape potential inteference by their in-laws.
Many National women fear they will never be married. Jokes about "the in-laws" are a
universal shared by most cultures, so in-law trouble is
not unique to the UAE. Is it a question of extremely severe in-law trouble in the UAE that explains the number of marriages of National men to foreign brides? Or is it easy access to foreign brides?
I don't know. But I bet that families would guarantee (if they could) that they would not interfere if in return it would gain their daughters a good marriage partner. This is yet another example of time inconsistency and the value of commitment (in this case, not to interfere).
Men taking foreign brides is viewed as a national problem. (In a country where Nationals are 80% of the population, I can understand the anxiety.) Among the actions taken by the government:
In 1998, a UAE law was passed to restrict dowries to less than Dhs 10,000. Families may be fined up to US$136,000 if they stage a wedding celebration considered too elaborate.
Unlike the case of ex post in-law interference - where it is not possible to commit not to interfere - the in-laws are capable of reducing their dowry demand to a point that their daughters do marry. Evidently, the government believes that the families of daughters tend to charge too much - and that there are not enough marriages between National men and women.
Ordinary supply and demand analysis would tell us if you put a ceiling on the bride price this reduces the quantity of brides supplied and thereby reduces the number of marriages. Yes, the number of men who wish to marry would increase, but, because the number of available brides falls, the number of marriages fall.
On this analysis the policy of penalizing lavish weddings and large dowries will produce a result the opposite of what is intended.
Right? Tell me.
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